A book You should read.

I have come across a book called "How to win friends and influence people". Though many people might have read it i would like to recall the 25 important lessons that book has taught me. I would like to put in a nutshell five points at a time .

1. Everyone will justify their actions. If you see it from their perspective, it will look alright. On the other hand if you do not understand the situation and find fault with others, you have to correct yourself.

2. Everyone will have a very good quality. Someone may sing melodiously, someone will write very neatly . Just bring out the special talent in the other person and appreciate it.

3. If you want to catch a fish you have to put something that attracts the fish, not the thing that is suited to you. Likewise when you want others to do a job, tell them the advantages of doing that job. You can see the speed with which he does the job. Instead of that if you insist on doing the job without telling the rewards, probably the job would be a non starter.

4. Have you ever thought why dog is the most pet animal to a human being.It shows interest in us. It wags its tails, so naturally we also start to love the dog.

5. The best ornament is smile. Just meet some one with a broad smile. Your friendship count will be more.

we will see in our next meeting.